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Showing posts with label newborn. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Why I Choose to Cloth Diaper

My mom cringed the moment I told her that I wanted to cloth diaper. 
“Cloth diaper??? I still have nightmares about dunking and swishing cloth diapers in the toilet. Please tell me you’re joking. I’ll pay for disposables for you, are you THAT short on cash?” 
I smiled politely and said “Even if I had all the money in the world, I would cloth diaper my children.” 
I must be crazy.

Check out the rest of my guest post over at Hip Moms Go Green, all about why I chose to cloth diaper, and continue to choose it every day. Let me know what you think :)

Friday, March 30, 2012

my baker's dozen NEEDS for a newborn

I know that many a people have composed many a lists on newborn necessities, but I thought it might be fun to compile my own, especially because I feel like there are pregnant women EVERYWHERE! I'm not even jealous of you!....yet. Till I meet your squishy babies then I'll want another one for myself! (Don't tell my husband.)

Anyway, here is the list. My things I cannot/could not live without when Lia and Siena were newborns. These are not in order of importance, they are ALL important to me.


  1. Sound Machine: I am a huge believer in sound machines (white noise, etc.). They are a great tool in washing out the noise of the outside world so baby can sleep soundly without waking to loud cars, loud neighbors, loud cats, loud big sisters, loud dish washing, loud - you get the idea.
  2. Secrets of the Baby Whisperer: I literally would not have survived without this book. I know that I owe so much to this book for how I learned to read/understand/comfort our girls. The Baby Whisperer's main philosophy is Eat, Play, Sleep. Meaning: baby eats, baby plays, baby goes back to sleep then the cycle starts all over again (basically you aren't nursing the baby for every nap, so baby learns to go to sleep without relying on the boob - please see #13). Also, this allows baby to digest milk/formula/food before they go back to sleep.
  3. Cloth Diapers: Obviously, if you know me at all, you know I love cloth diapers. I talk about why I love them here and explain the basic systems. Basically, I would prefer to lower the toxins that are going into my babes' bodies, and disposable diapers are full of those. An added bonus to using cloth diapers (but #1 for my husband) is that it SAVES THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS! I've linked to the Bummis kit which has 36 unbleached prefolds, 6 diaper covers, 2 rolls of flushable liners, and an instruction book.
  4. Cloth Wipes: I didn't use cloth wipes at very beginning, and I wish I had. These have come in handy for runny noses/little spit ups/etc. without wasting money on disposable wipes. They also clean up poo so much better than disposable wipes... I only use one cloth wipe when I probably would have used seven disposables.
  5. Wrap Style Baby Carrier: I've linked to the Wrapsody carrier since it was the one I used and loved. It is not as stretchy as the Moby wrap, which is nice because it doesn't make the baby all saggy the longer you wear him/her (which makes you have to tighten it since it is not as supportive). This is definitely my preferred babywearing method during the newborn/infant stage because it is the most cuddly thing EVER. Also, buckle carriers (such as the Ergo and Boba) are just not as supportive/comfortable for the newborn stage. They also require different ways to wear the carrier to adapt it for a newborn, whereas a wrap is perfect for newborns all the way up to 35 lbs.
  6. Onesies: I obviously have two girls, and people just LOVE to buy girls the cutest clothes! However, I literally need to make a conscious effort to put my girls in cute outfits and snap photos and all that jazz. I really just go for comfort when it comes to the newborn age... They are so little and squishy anyway, they look adorable in everything! Onesies are about all I had Siena in this time around, especially since I tried to wear her as often as possibly in my Wrapsody. Another necessity in my eyes are socks... all baby's heat leaves her feet! So I wrap socks on the babe and she gets to keep her heat where it's needed :)
  7. Colic Medicine: I put the good ole' Gripe Water on here. This was my go-to when I just could NOT figure out for the life of me why Lia and Siena were crying. You're fed, you've slept, you're not overstimulated... must be gas! So I drop some Gripe Water into their mouths and voila! Mama feels better :) It's something I've highly recommended to many a moms who simply cannot figure out why their babe is fussing.
  8. Baby Shampoo/Wash and Lotion: I don't go on the cheap in the next few categories. These are areas that are really important to me because they are things that are going onto the baby or the baby is constantly touching, and I know that the less toxic the substance, the better. Earth Mama Angel Baby is an incredible shampoo/body wash and lotion, and I cannot speak highly enough of it. It has a fantastic rating on the Environmental Working Group's Cosmetic Database. Check out that site - it is my go-to for knowing the toxic impact on the products I put on my skin.
  9. Car seat: Since I was either wearing Siena in my wrap or put one of the girls in my stroller, I never saw the need for an "infant" car seat. I would go with the convertible version, where it will work from infancy to toddler-hood. Best bang for your buck, and you don't have to lug around a huge car seat wherever you go.
  10. A Crib: I used to live in a dreamworld in my head where it would be awesome to sleep with your baby and Mike and I would be as comfortable as can be, and the babe would be nestled into my arms every night and I would get to smell her sweet scent for forever... Didn't happen. I loved sleeping with Lia and then eventually Siena for the first week and a half - two weeks. With Lia we put her in bassinet by our bed, but even that was hard for us - I would wake with every peep, and I would pinch Mike every single time he snored. It was just hard for us. Both of the girls went to their cribs pretty early on, which gave all of us a great night's sleep. (I rarely regret this decision, not co-sleeping for longer, but the thought of my snuggly baby close to me all night sounds so beautiful sometimes. But then I sprawl out in my bed with Michael and I remember how nice it is to be just us two.)
  11. Organic Crib Mattress (with organic cotton sheets): Wouldn't budge on this if you paid me. This is where my baby is spending 18 of her 24 hours in a day, so it better not be a toxic environment for her to be on. Read more on the disadvantages to standard mattresses here.
  12. Swaddle Blankets: Babies love to be swaddled... if you haven't heard of Happiest Baby on the Block, it's a great book that I've taken tidbits of info from. One of their "s"es is "swaddling." Basically, the babe was all up and cozy in your womb for the past 40 weeks, he/she wants to be cozy-ed once he or she is out - cozy them up, darn it! It is super important for the babe to be swaddled when she's sleeping because her movements are so jerky that it could wake her from her sleep. Swaddle away with these INSANELY soft swaddle blankets... they're uh-mazing.
  13. A Boob: You cannot find this on Amazon, but if you search your body, you may be able to locate this. Obviously, if you are unable to nurse, bottles, etc would be in this spot :)
Hopefully this list is useful to you in some way. If not, I apologize. Come back again!

What would you add?

Monday, March 19, 2012

friends! thoughts?

So a few friends and I have a dream!
I feel like I'm on fire again, and I'm so stinking excited I could jump up in the clouds and hop around for a bit.

But, I want your thoughts.

Imagine you're a mom/mom-to-be (if you're not a mom and you're reading this blog, I apologize if I ever bore you, but thanks for being here!).

You are interested in babywearing/cloth diapers/homemade baby foods.

You are hoping for a newborn or have a newborn (aka you don't want to leave your house with your babe).

Here's where we come in!


We would have a business that would do 1-on-1 consultations for you in your own home.

If you're interested in babywearing, we bring over every type of carrier that is available. We try the carriers that are specifically made for your body type, for your babes' ages, etc. We mold the entire consultation to meet your needs.

With the money that you paid for this 1-on-1 consultation, we put that towards your special order that you order from us, getting the exact specific carrier that you want, while having the confidence and knowledge to babywear like an expert.

You get to be in your space, receive great product knowledge about something extremely important for you and your babe's well-being, get 1-on-1 attention, and get the exact carrier that works for your family and you.

Apply all of that to cloth diapers, homemade baby food, etc.


I want to know what you think!


Love,
Jenna

these days

Some days you have a toddler at your feet, you have a cranky 9 month old, food cooking on the stove, a husband who goes to work hard every day, vacuuming to be done.... and pounds and pounds of laundry waiting for you.

Yes, it was one of those days. So, you do what you gotta do. Up my cranky girl Siena went on the laundry table, to help me fold and stuff and organize.


These days are the days where I try as hard as I can to not huff-and-puff. To take my time, to look my girls in their eyes, to let them know I am present to them. I physically have to remind myself that they are angels given to me, and that their cries for me or for dad are not going to be around forever. At some point, they will grow up, they won't want kisses, they won't want to lay in our arms for hours on end, they will leave us.

Those days will kill me so much more than the days where I feel like I don't have enough time, enough arms, enough patience to get through. Those days will be quiet in a way that I haven't heard quiet in years. Those days I will long for these days, these glorious days that teach me more about myself than ever before.


Love,
Jenna

Saturday, March 17, 2012

weekend reads

haru no maboroshi #1 by _mayxxx_

Waiting on God ---> Keeper of the Home
what I love from this: "If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time."

what I love from this: "I reflect more fondly on our bottle feeding moments than breastfeeding, because they were far more intimate and sweet."

i believe in miracles ---> A Deeper Story
what I love from this: "God has seen me from across the room and cannot take His eyes off of me."

The Beauty of the Ordinary Day ---> The Creative Mama
what I love from this: "My ordinary life is my adventure. Forcing myself to enjoy life’s small daily gifts has filled me with a renewed sense of gratitude."

oh, friends. oh, elections. oh, facebook ---> A Deeper Story
what I love from this: "Flipping tables is exhausting after awhile. Maybe instead I’ll stick to just giving them a little bump as I walk by."

Monday, October 17, 2011

NB Cloth Diaper Info

I have quite a few friends that are pregnant right now that have been taking the dive into contemplating cloth diapering. I wanted to touch on a few things - words of encouragement (!!), advice, and just some general info on cloth diapering from the newborn stage as opposed to diapering an older baby.

First of all, hats off to you, mama, for taking the plunge into even thinking about cloth diapering. For whatever reason it may be, whether it be the chemicals in disposables, the money you will most definitely save, or the landfills piling up with tons of poop (literally) - you WILL face adversity, you WILL face skeptics, you WILL face the downright looks of disgust from your neighboring mamas. However, this is my time to say, "Well done." You are trying to do something different for your child that is for the betterment of their health and environment. I am most certainly not knocking disposable diapers (we still use disposables for various reasons), but I AM saying, you are taking a plunge into something relatively unknown, and I believe in you that you can do this.

I will have to say, though, that most people who are greatly against cloth diapers have NEVER seen a modern cloth diaper. They are generally thinking of flat diapers that you have to fold to find the best absorbency, wrap onto a squirmy baby, pin the diaper on (hopefully without pinning baby), and pulling some bulky plastic pants on. This is NOT modern cloth diapering. THIS is a modern cloth diaper, in all its [cutest] glory:



Some concerns that people have in regards to the newborn stage:

1. How many diapers do I need?

To diaper a newborn, we generally say you need approximately 36 diapers. This is you having enough diapers to launder every two days (as you are generally changing baby every 2 hours - or 12 times a day). If you go with a prefold/flat/AI2 system, you need 36 diapers (the absorbency part) and 4-6 covers. If you go with pocket/AIO diapers, you need 36 diapers total.

2. Where do I store?

You have two options here: either buy a diaper pail from Wal-Mart/Target/Something Similar and use a pail liner to line the diaper pail OR get a hanging wet bag. Both of this options are lined with waterproof material so no wetness gets out of them. Wet bags generally zipper, while pail liners just line the pail (hence the name) - so I find that wet bags hold the smell in a bit better. Both are great options. 

I recommend having two of whatever system you go with - if you're washing one wet bag with your diapers, you have another wet bag for while you're washing.

3. How do I launder?

Laundering is much simpler than what you think. Really, it is. Newborn breastfed poo is water soluble, so it does not require any sort of rinsing before it is put into the washing machine. Once baby starts solids, you will need to invest in one of three options: a diaper sprayerflushable liners, or some rubber gloves to "dunk and swish" your dipes yourself. 

Diaper sprayer? Basically a bidet that connects to your toilet. When baby poos, you take the diaper to the toilet, spray off the poo, throw it in the wet bag. Simple. 

Flushable liners? Line your diaper with a flushable liner, baby poos, remove the flushable liner and throw into the toilet, throw diaper into wet bag. Simple.

Rubber gloves? Pretty self-explanatory.

After the dipes have filled your wet bag, head over to your laundry room. All pocket diapers need to have their respective inserts removed before washing, and every other system is pretty set to go. (Velcro? - affix to the "laundry tabs" the creative Diaper Creator has put on her diaper.)

1. Throw diapers in washing machine.
2. Cold rinse.
3. Add cloth diaper safe detergent (lots of options, my favorite: Rockin' Green)
4. Hot wash/cold rinse.
5. Rinse again.
6. Throw into dryer. (I recommend line drying covers and machine drying inserts, however, you can throw everything into dryer if that makes it easier for you.)

That's all folks!

4. What about the poop??

Again, newborn breastfed poo is water soluble, so it does NOT require any sort of rinsing before it is put into the washing machine. Once baby starts solids, you will need to invest in one of three options: a diaper sprayerflushable liners, or some rubber gloves to "dunk and swish" your dipes yourself. 

Diaper sprayer? Basically a bidet that connects to your toilet. When baby poos, you take the diaper to the toilet, spray off the poo, throw it in the wet bag. Simple. 

Flushable liners? Line your diaper with a flushable liner, baby poos, remove the flushable liner and throw into the toilet, throw diaper into wet bag. Simple.

Rubber gloves? Pretty self-explanatory.

5. What are the essentials?

You absolutely need: a baby (duh), cloth diapers (duhx2), and cloth diaper safe detergent. You don't want a detergent that has any enzymes, optical brighteners, fabric softeners, etc. Here is a great site to find out if your detergent is "safe."

6. Are there babysitter friendly diapers?

Yes. All-in-one (AIO) diapers as well as pocket diapers are probably the closest-looking to a disposable  diaper as they come. My favorites? The BumGenius Elemental OS, the BumGenius XS AIO (for newborns), the Swaddlebees Simplex 2.0, and the Fuzzibunz Sized diapers.


I understand this is a TON of information - we Mamas (especially new ones) can become overwhelmed. But have no fear! Be encouraged in your quest to do what you feel is right for your family and baby. You are not alone! I can promise you that :)

Please feel free, as always, to leave comments/questions/anything and I will answer anything! 

I will be updating on here for the next few posts on newborn cloth diapering, so please come back and periodically check up on my most recent reviews. I've posted one review on the Fuzzibunz XS Pocket Diaper, but I will be adding more!

NB cloth diaper reviews: Fuzzibunz XS Pocket DIaper

So Siena is around 4 months old (way past the "newborn" age), so I wanted to kind of do an overview of our experience cloth diapering her as a newborn.

Before I had her I always said "If I lived in a dream world with lots of money, I would buy all SIZED diapers to diaper my kids."

Sized diapers are diapers that are sized for a specific weight range. I love sized diapers as you get the best fit out of the diaper without having to worry about "sizing" it for multiple children (as I have two in diapers - Lia is 22 months and Siena 14 weeks).

Here is an example of a newborn "sized" diaper. This is an XS Fuzzibunz (4-12lbs) pocket diaper at 10 days old:




PROS:
  • Great fit for newborn
  • Snaps (so no messing with velcro in the wash/dryer)
  • Easy application
  • No leaks
  • Soft microfleece next to baby's skin
CONS:
  • Unstuffing pocket diaper before washing
  • Snaps on a newborn don't get the best fit, as you may be in between snaps
  • Small pocket opening makes it more difficult to re-stuff after drying
**If I had a chance to buy different newborn sized diapers, I would probably purchase velcro and an all-in-one option as opposed to a pocket. Velcro's pro: giving you the best fit on a little babe. All-in-one pro: you don't have to worry about unstuff/stuffing a very small pocket opening.

This is what I would buy: 


http://www.zoolikins.com/bumgenius-3.0-aio-cloth-diaper.html


I will continue to be doing reviews of our past diapers, so check back!

Friday, September 16, 2011

pacifier work out night

Shortly after Siena's birth I began to work out. Surprising, right?! I know, I know, I don't really like to work out and I am kind of the definition of lazy sometimes... so it is definitely shocking to hear that only a couple weeks after Siena's birth, I decided to work out. Let me tell you how it happened.

One night, Mike was out of town with the band and Siena was only a couple of weeks old. I put her in her crib around 8pm for nighttime. At this time, I was attempting to get Siena to love her pacifier. I know, per many things I've read/seen, that babies need to suck to feel calming (the 5th "S" of Happiest Baby on the Block) So, with the pacifier in mouth, she was armed and set to have a LOOONNNGG night of sleep!

I trek across the hall to my room and crawl into my comfiest bed ever (this is how you feel about your bed when you haven't touched it in 18 hours and you've been chasing a toddler around with a newborn attached to you while attempting to shove food in your own mouth and survive) and close my eyyeeesss - uh oh. Baby crying. Mom duty.

Went back to across the hall, search through the dark room to find my way to her crib, and stick the pacifier back in her mouth, wait for her to start sucking, then pull my hand slowwllyyy back. 

Okay.

Back to my room. She'll fall asleep this time, I just know it. My bed is sooo comfyyyyyy... Uh oh.

Baby crying.

Mom duty.

and the cycle begins

After about the fourth time of this sick and twisted back and forth, I decided I would just stay in her room and wait for her to spit the pacifier back out just so I could put it back in so she could go back to sleep.

I head into her room to wait.

...waiting...

This is so silly. Maybe I could do something to pass the time. I can't read, it's too dark. I can't watch a tv show or sing or do a dance, that's just too much. How about I just stand against the wall and do a wall sit? Oh wait, those were always torturous, just passing the seconds.

I decided on doing some squats. After the squats, I decided to do push-ups. Pacifier back in mouth. After push-ups, sit ups. Sit ups - pacifier - back to squats. Let's add in some calf raises - pacifier. Now we're just getting crazy.

I went through this for probably another hour. It definitely felt good to work out in some way - but this was the night that I realized I couldn't do this any more. So when she finally passed out from crying every ten minutes after she spit out the pacifier, I finally found peace in my bed, and had the gift of sleep. What a gift that is!

The next morning, or maybe the morning after that - some time following this work out/pacifier/work out/pacifier night, I realized something. She needs to find her hand. And me shoving a pacifier in her mouth is getting in the way of her instinct to shove her hand in her mouth and suck on it.

That was the end of me working out.

 I tend to lean towards being supportive of my babies sucking on their fingers/hands. I think a pacifier is really awesome, but I realized early that Siena needs to find her own way to suck because we just get caught up in this crazy cycle of having to shove it back into her mouth because she can't keep it in there.

So, a few weeks later, this is the cuteness you get:


As grateful as I am to have those times with Siena in the middle of the night, I am even more grateful and sane when I get to have a few hours of sleep. Since finding her hand, we have many more peaceful nights with a sane Mommy in the morning. It's a lovely combination :)

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